Make A New Friend

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Post 1 by Chris N (I just keep on posting!) on Saturday, 21-May-2005 13:24:21

Make A New Friend is now available from the main menu. This page looks at who you have exchanged private quicknotes with, determines the top people they have talked to who you don't yet know, and recommends people that you might want to get to know. At worst, it's amusing to see who is recommended--at best this might lead to making a cool new friend. Feel free to reply or write me privately to express your opinions on this newest site addition.

Post 2 by Inesle1987 (Account disabled) on Saturday, 21-May-2005 14:00:46

Hey I think this is a great idea.

Post 3 by renegade rocker (I just keep on posting!) on Saturday, 21-May-2005 14:15:13

I agree there!

Post 4 by krisme (Ancient Zoner) on Saturday, 21-May-2005 14:44:21

Sounds cool. Going to try it.

Post 5 by sugarbaby (The voice of reason) on Saturday, 21-May-2005 14:54:41

so does this list change? as in, is it an ongoing thing? if I start talking to these five people and they become my best friends, will my recommendations change?

Post 6 by Chris N (I just keep on posting!) on Saturday, 21-May-2005 14:59:38

Yes. If you send a quicknote to one of the recommended friends and they send at least one back, they will no longer be recommended and someone else will take their place. Also if any of your top five friends change, or if any of their top 10 friends change, your list may also change. It really displays your recommended friends at a certain point in time...so check back often to see how things change.

Post 7 by Jess227 on Saturday, 21-May-2005 15:25:12

Ha I thought some of those were kinda funny. The top 5 peeps are the peeps I usually talk to. The 4 recommended to me were 3 of the same person. Interesting.

Post 8 by Flidais (WISEST IS SHE WHO KNOWS THAT SHE DOES NOT KNOW) on Saturday, 21-May-2005 16:03:37

Great idea Chris. <smile> I like the fact that it's an ongoing thing, so it's never out-of-date.

Post 9 by n1umj (Veteran Zoner) on Saturday, 21-May-2005 16:50:17

I like it! I like it!1

Post 10 by CrystalDiamond4207 (Generic Zoner) on Saturday, 21-May-2005 17:01:19

You know what I think of it, since we've chatted abit about it, and I, too like the fact that it's ever-changing. I did get some amusement from the list. Lol.

Post 11 by rdfreak (THE ONE AND ONLY TRUE-BLUE KANGA-KICKIN AUSIE) on Saturday, 21-May-2005 19:05:31

Lol I smiled when I saw it! hahaha I got some amusement myself! it's pretty interesting! I got one person who I talk to anyway as a recommended friend and the others people that I should be talkin to more Lol Lol OK OK i get the hintige! :)

Post 12 by louiano (I'm going for the prolific poster awards!) on Saturday, 21-May-2005 19:29:48

hmm, thats quite... hmm, lets say funny since i don't know or barely talk to the recomended ones but its quite smart and is a pretty good job

Post 13 by wonderwoman (I've now got the silver prolific poster award! wahoo!) on Saturday, 21-May-2005 19:38:01

I thought it was sort of funny, I've never talked to anyone of the 5 that were reccommended. What if you don't use quicknotes, or lets say I decided to turn them back off? would it then say something like, you have no top friends, you have no recommended friends? lol.
wonderwoman

Post 14 by Chris N (I just keep on posting!) on Saturday, 21-May-2005 20:09:35

It will still find recommended friends even if you don't have quicknotes on. The whole idea is to identify people who you haven't talked to and recommend that you do so. This is doable as long as you have sent and received at least one quicknote in each direction with one other person.

Post 15 by Miss Gorgeous (I'm going for the prolific poster awards!) on Saturday, 21-May-2005 20:17:30

its cool to get to know who you always quicknotes with. can you also add testimonials? as a feature

Post 16 by krisme (Ancient Zoner) on Saturday, 21-May-2005 20:35:16

Well I just private messaged one of my recomended friends and will now go annoy the other four. i like how the list changes a lot, I want to get to know the people on here better.

Post 17 by changeling2006 (Veteran Zoner) on Saturday, 21-May-2005 21:07:28

Will this be available for free members as well?

Post 18 by krisme (Ancient Zoner) on Saturday, 21-May-2005 21:14:29

Yeah, it's available to anyone.

Post 19 by krisme (Ancient Zoner) on Saturday, 21-May-2005 23:20:47

I'm doing pretty good so far. I've made friends with three people and they've all been replaced by three more.

Post 20 by Dave_H (the boringest guy you'll ever know) on Sunday, 22-May-2005 2:27:43

Another profiles site I use has a similar feature. It's amusing to see how the robot suggests matches. LOL.

-Dave

Post 21 by Ukulele<3 (Try me... You know you want to.) on Sunday, 22-May-2005 6:54:51

I just checked it out and I think it's awesome!!! I haven't really talked to my reccomended friends yet but I will do!!!

Post 22 by Inesle1987 (Account disabled) on Sunday, 22-May-2005 14:15:39

There's just one guy on my recommendation list I will never contact, but the rest is interesting. I like that feature a lot.

Post 23 by wonderwoman (I've now got the silver prolific poster award! wahoo!) on Sunday, 22-May-2005 19:28:12

well, my recommended friends list changed by one when someone sent me a quicknote whose list I was on. The others stayed the same except one, and the person it suggested made me laugh, lol, but it goes by mutual friends or something. it recommended him because 2 other people I've talked to hae exchanged a lot of quicknotes with. Anyway, it was hilarious, heeheeheehee.
wonderwoman

Post 24 by Chris N (I just keep on posting!) on Sunday, 22-May-2005 22:35:53

The page has been updated. For each recommended friend, it lists a number in parentheses after each of the friends linking you to that person. This number corresponds to the place that person has in the linking friend's list. If they're at 10, and they are only linked by one person, they will probably drop as someone else takes the tenth place position in the linking friend's list.

Post 25 by wonderwoman (I've now got the silver prolific poster award! wahoo!) on Monday, 23-May-2005 0:05:17

sounds a bit complex, lol. anyway, I made a mistake, my recommende d list changed by 2 people.
wonderwoman

Post 26 by admin (I just keep on posting!) on Monday, 23-May-2005 0:47:12

Ya. This is quite cool. I can definitely say taht this is nothing that I would have thought of.

Post 27 by rdfreak (THE ONE AND ONLY TRUE-BLUE KANGA-KICKIN AUSIE) on Monday, 23-May-2005 5:56:31

circle of friends - as the title of the book goes! Lol

Post 28 by wildebrew (We promised the world we'd tame it, what were we hoping for?) on Monday, 23-May-2005 10:08:10

I looked at this thing and talked to a few peple about it (mind you I haven't read this thread just the initial post). Ihave one recommendation for a fix. I think the time elapsed since last user login should be taken into account. I knowof people who are recommended a user who has not loggedin for over 3 months now, I think a month or 6 weeks should be the maximum time since last login in order for a user to be recommended, after all it's hard to make friends with someone who is not there. Otherwise, yes, it's very amusign and innovative idea *smiles* good job.]cheers
-B

Post 29 by sugarbaby (The voice of reason) on Monday, 23-May-2005 10:20:58

yeh agree with b on this one - one of my recommended friends last logged in at the end of January, so I'd imagine that they're not likely to be coming back any time soon, or even if they are, as they've been away for so long it might be fair to assume that they're not regular zoners and therefore wouldn't really become friends.

Post 30 by sugar (Entertain me. I dare you.) on Monday, 23-May-2005 10:30:35

I think it'd be cool to have some kind of button to discard recommended friends? for like, if you know damn well you'll never ever want to talk to someone who's recommended?

Post 31 by sugarbaby (The voice of reason) on Monday, 23-May-2005 10:46:56

lol good idea. although could we take it one step further? where the table is that shows who your recommended friends are, and who links them to you, could there also be an indication of anyone who has been linked to any of your friends through you? that way, if you knew that one of your contacts was linked to another of your friends, you could perhaps introduce them, or put them off, as might be the case, grin

Post 32 by sugarbaby (The voice of reason) on Monday, 23-May-2005 11:26:07

and to make one more suggestion ... someone just mentioned that their top recommended friend has them on ignore, well that kind of defeats the object as well? - could the feature not include people who have you on ignore? since that would be pointless

Post 33 by Ukulele<3 (Try me... You know you want to.) on Monday, 23-May-2005 11:33:45

agreed sugarbaby.

Post 34 by admin (I just keep on posting!) on Monday, 23-May-2005 12:56:47

A bunch of great ideas. Keep em coming.

Post 35 by sugarbaby (The voice of reason) on Monday, 23-May-2005 17:44:22

one thing I'm not sure about though, what exactly does that number in brackets indicate next to the name of the user the recommended person is linked to mean?

Post 36 by Chris N (I just keep on posting!) on Monday, 23-May-2005 18:16:38

I like the ideas of excluding people who haven't been on the site in a while and those who have you on ignore. The number in brackets is where this recommended friend ranks in the linking friend. Let's take my list as an example. I have Midnight Princess (hi there) at number 2 on my list, angel77 at number 4, and acosha at number 5. These are my friends and appear in the first list. If I look at my list of recommended friends, I see: 1. jazzdogg1 (#288) is linked to you through: midnight princess (9), angel77 (4), acosha (10). This means that
jazzdogg1 is my top recommended friend and is linked through the three people I just mentioned. If Midnight Princess were to look at her list, she would see jazzdogg1 in ninth place on her list of friends, if the list actually included 10 people. I display five people on that list to keep things tidy but I actually look at your top 10 friends to get more possibilities for the recommended list. Anyway, Angel77 would actually see Jazzdogg1 on her list in fourth place. Make any more sense now?

Post 37 by Nick6489 (11 years a Zoner) on Monday, 23-May-2005 20:05:18

Cool Idea, am about to check it out. Maybe we need a "Bugger off" list? Lolage.

Post 38 by Inesle1987 (Account disabled) on Tuesday, 24-May-2005 4:09:42

This is really a new great feature.

Post 39 by sugarbaby (The voice of reason) on Tuesday, 24-May-2005 10:38:57

ok, it still doesn't make sense to me, sorry, maybe I'm just a bit thick but .. the way you explain it, the number indicates where on that person's friend list the recommended friend appears, yet one of the recommended people who has been recommended through me is showing as number 1 and yet they are not even close to number 1 on my friends list ... hows that work?

Post 40 by Texas Shawn (The cute, cuddley, little furr ball) on Tuesday, 24-May-2005 12:42:56

how about sorting or a toggle for females and males. lol! imm a good boy really I am!

Post 41 by sugarbaby (The voice of reason) on Tuesday, 24-May-2005 12:50:12

well you could, but the problem with that is .. what happens to the ones who don't specify their gender, grin

Post 42 by Texas Shawn (The cute, cuddley, little furr ball) on Tuesday, 24-May-2005 14:43:27

male, female, or neutral. lol. all the neut's could hook up then! hell we might be saving the world!

Post 43 by The Roman Battle Mask (Making great use of my Employer's time.) on Tuesday, 24-May-2005 15:00:50

admin keep the ideas coming since your not the one doing the coding. Chris upgrade your mysql to version 4.1 that one should have nested select sttatements.

Post 44 by wildebrew (We promised the world we'd tame it, what were we hoping for?) on Tuesday, 24-May-2005 15:10:22

Wow, MySQL hasn'thad nested select statements up til this version .. I am surprised and a bit spoilt by sql server 2000 I guess. 2005 will be even better allowing you to expose results of sqlprocs through web services directly which I think is brilliant to say the lest.
But, anyways, Chris, I'm confused is the rank of the recommended friend based only on number of mutual friends (in your example you and jazdaq had 3 mutual friends) or is the number of quick notes exchanged and the ranking for each friend taken into consideration. What if e.g. total of quick notes exchanged between the three mutual friends and jazdaq was 800 but you found another person that shared two friends with you and excahnge between that person and the friends totaled 3000. I guess it's not a matter of right or wrong and a train of thought might be that the number of shared friends matter mor than the closeness of friendship between them and the recommended friend.
But like I said, I think people who have not signed in for e.g. the previous 6 weeks should be excluded from this match feature, just because of practical reasons, shouldjust be a simple query modification.
Cheers
-B

Post 45 by Inesle1987 (Account disabled) on Tuesday, 24-May-2005 15:30:35

Lol! Neutrals!!

Post 46 by Chris N (I just keep on posting!) on Tuesday, 24-May-2005 18:43:10

Right now it weights the number of mutually friends, then the numbers of exchanged quicknotes. The number in brackets is where the recommended friend is on each of the linking friends' lists, not your list. And as for the male/female thing, I think we have enough ways for you to decide which other zoners to hit on. :)

Post 47 by The Roman Battle Mask (Making great use of my Employer's time.) on Tuesday, 24-May-2005 18:50:15

Ya, I like mysql better then sql server mainly because I'm not doing any real important ddatabase stuff and am just learning sql. Sql server 2005 should be good though, gonna have to try and get that beta, let you know how accessible it is if I get it and you haven't played with it yet.

Post 48 by sugarbaby (The voice of reason) on Wednesday, 25-May-2005 2:03:52

well if that's the case then there is a flaw in the system, a contact of mine has someone on her recommended friends list who who has the 1 in brackets next to my name, and he is definitely not number 1 on my list, not even close.

Post 49 by sugarbaby (The voice of reason) on Wednesday, 25-May-2005 2:22:09

ah, got it now . sorry don't think straight first thing ... grin

Post 50 by admin (I just keep on posting!) on Wednesday, 25-May-2005 13:23:36

We're way past 4.1, Blindguy. And LOL, there's nothing stopping me from adding the date and ignore limiters that were requested. Both are relatively simple. Once we put in the ignore thing, that'd be a way for you to get someone off your recommended list.

Post 51 by wonderwoman (I've now got the silver prolific poster award! wahoo!) on Wednesday, 25-May-2005 19:48:28

I think this feature will work mostly for the 13 to 19 age group. Matches like this are a hit and miss with most anything, and if they quick noted all 5 people who are on their recommended friends list, the odds are in favor that they might each find at least one person they have something in common with. 20to 30, it might still work, but the younger the people, the more likely it is to work, but me? I'm too far out of the age range, 46, so it won't work for me one way or ttthe other, but I get some amusement out of it, and if someone whose list I'm on sends me a quicknote, I'll know whose list I'm on, lol. to

Post 52 by wonderwoman (I've now got the silver prolific poster award! wahoo!) on Wednesday, 25-May-2005 19:50:41

I don't expect my list will change very much, since I seldom if ever quick note anyone first. I can't remember the last time I send someone a quicknote first.

Post 53 by wonderwoman (I've now got the silver prolific poster award! wahoo!) on Saturday, 28-May-2005 0:18:39

hey I was just wondering if you are on the same people's recommended friends list as they are on yours? I mean, for example, if catwoman and sazel are both on my friends list, does that mean I'm on their friends list also? wonderwoman

Post 54 by wonderwoman (I've now got the silver prolific poster award! wahoo!) on Saturday, 28-May-2005 0:37:50

I mean if they are on my recommended friends list, does that mean I'm on their recommended friends list. I just looked at this post and noticed the way I phrased it, lol
wonderwoman

Post 55 by Chris N (I just keep on posting!) on Saturday, 28-May-2005 12:47:39

The recommended friends lists aren't reciprocal.

Post 56 by louiano (I'm going for the prolific poster awards!) on Tuesday, 07-Jun-2005 20:18:03

hmm... well it has changed a bit lol, sure it did... since i just started talking to someone way too much and now the number one recomended friend is someone who has me on ignore! lol thats so random...

Post 57 by wonderwoman (I've now got the silver prolific poster award! wahoo!) on Tuesday, 07-Jun-2005 20:48:56

well I sent one of the recommended friends a quicknote, after reading her profile, but she didn't want to talk, so scratch that. Mine changes a bit and keeps putting the same people back on my list. I'm not sure if any of the ones who've quicknoted me lately, if I'm on their recommended list, but I think basically, most people will just quicknote someone to get them off their recommended list, so it will put someone new on there.
wonderwoman